Plans Succeed by Wise Counsel

Building a flywheel of success for life and career

Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed. — Proverbs 15:22

We often assume that if we just think hard enough or work long enough, our plans will succeed. But Proverbs reminds us that success does not come from effort alone. It comes through wise counsel. And seeking that counsel begins with humility. You have to admit, “I don’t know,” and then be willing to ask someone who does.

Seeking advice not only requires humility. It equips you for what lies ahead. To paraphrase what Newton said, you see farther because you are standing on the shoulders of giants. You learn from those who have done it before, who have already seen the pitfalls, and can help you avoid them.

When I launched a podcast, I didn’t try to figure it all out on my own. I asked those who had already been doing it. I joined a podcasting community and asked tons of questions—about interviewing, tools, distribution, and finding guests. I received generous help. Then, as I began running the podcast myself, I encountered specific challenges. Each time I went back with focused questions, I received practical and helpful answers.

For example, when I needed tips on driving, I didn’t ask my dad. He loves me deeply, but he has never driven a car in his life. Instead, I turned to my brother-in-law, who has driven across states, through all kinds of weather, and in different vehicles. His advice came from real experience. In the same way, when you are navigating leadership, launching a startup, or managing finances, seek counsel from people who are ahead of you, not just beside you. Listen to those who have walked the road and carry the wisdom of having done it.

And once you receive advice, act on it. Nothing discourages mentors more than someone who gathers wisdom but never uses it. Learning becomes meaningful only when it is applied. When you take action, you honor those who have invested in you, and you invite even more meaningful guidance next time.

Wise counsel increases your chances of success, but only if you are humble enough to ask and committed enough to act.

# Action Items:

  • Reflect and journal on one area where you’re stuck—where you need counsel to move forward.
  • Identify and reach out to one person ahead of you in that area. Ask a specific question based on their experience.
  • Apply the advice within a week, then update them on your progress before seeking further guidance.

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